Tuesday, February 10, 2009
Kay's final reflections
Once again each day brings a new experience. Some have been challenging, some entertaining and all interesting. Today was no exception as we were guests of the United States Ambassador to Niger. We spent time sharing the role of the Reformed Church's partnership with the EERN and hoping that the US government might be able to help support some of the outreach programs that EERN wishes to establish. As we all know its a small world; the Ambassador is a 1978 graduate of the Reformed Church's Central College in Pella, Iowa. She has a unique understanding of who we are so hopefully it will help. She also graciously provided us with a photo op.
We ended the week as it began with digging and wheelbarrowing. We do believe that the foundation digging will be completed tomorrow. To answer Ed's question about the need for 5 foot deep trenches -- It is because of a soil study and most of the soil is sand. Timing is everything. We leave tonight and they begin hand mixing and pouring concrete on Thursday. We thought our work was tough.
Highlights:
The bathroom on the giraffe trip.
The public restrooms (unisex - no public toilet paper, need to carry own)
The private bathroom (Didn't know that a 2 cup measuring cup poured over your head qualifies as a shower and doubles as a toilet flusher.)
Sauce over starch every day for lunch and then served as leftovers for dinner. Always with bread.
A 6 am wake up call can be the sound of pounding millet.
Learning that geckos are not afraid to come inside.
Living in community can be fun.
Swimming in the suez canal. Also known as ditch diving.
Learning to speak Hausa.
Remembering, knowing and experiencing that people are people, despite culture, language or opportunity.
Spending time with Sue - a dear friend, wonderful traveling companion, mission motivator, spiritual example, one though whom the light of Jesus shines so readily.
You really can see the JOY OF THE LORD in so many ways, we can't wait to share more.
Thank you for following our excellent adventure.
Sue's Final Thoughts
Monday, February 9, 2009
Fruit of the Spirit Devotion- Day 8
Sunday's Joy
Sunday, February 8, 2009
My Jesus is From America
Saturday, February 7, 2009
GPS -- African Style
Back to giraffe hunting. Our guide brought with him his giraffe GPS. This consisted of him sitting on the roof of the 4X4 with a long stick that he pointed down on the windshield to go left or go right through the bush. When he wanted us to stop he would tap the windshield. We saw 12 ( 3 babies, one 3 months old) in total. They are the only giraffes in the world that roam entirely in unprotected habitat. They wander among villagers and nomadic herders (not Ed and Gloria). Because Niger is one of the poorest and most desolate places on earth, people and giraffes are both fighting for survival competing for some of the same scare resources in this dry, increasingly deforested land. The herd now numbers at 175 up from 60 in 1996. Sue, Karen and Wanda rode on top with the guide as we searched the bush. We passed many small villages and camels, goats and cattle too. It was so quiet in the bush compared to the noise and chaos of the city. It was a great change. By the way it was 106 degrees.
Soup and Sandwiches
After dinner we went to a gathering, the young adults couples club. There were: eight couples, two newlyweds, 5 children, a baby, the pastor and his wife, 7 old Americans and Jeff (he is 31). We gathered in the living room. All the children and African women sat on the floor. The rest of the group sat on lovely couches and Kay and I found the vinyl dining room chairs (a reappearance of swamp butt). The evening began with prayer, African singing and a discussion of the future of this group. There is so much that they are looking to accomplish. They are trying to discover their role in leadership in the church and were looking for ideas from us as to what has worked for us in the US. Basically, we shared that the most important thing was to have fun together. Kay shared about NOAH (No Older Adults Here- this brought much laughter) and the importance of doing activities with children and without children. The father of the new baby thought that sounded like something they should do immediately. Their greatest desire is to share their faith with their spouse first and then with each other and then with their Muslim friends ( because Christians are so much in the minority here).
As with all good gatherings refreshments were served. The drink was Hibiscus Tea (sweet and cold - this is also what was served as the communion wine in church last Sunday). The food was loaves of bread and community bowls of mutton stew served with no utensils or napkins. As Kay and I fussed over our bread crumbs mounting in our laps we realized that everyone else didn't seem to care including the hostess. A bowl was passed for the bones and a separate bowl was passed to wash your hands when finished. They were so gracious to us. They took an offering and used the quilted activities bag that Kay and I brought for Jeremy's children. We don't know what the offering was for, but assume that it was to cover the cost of hosting the party. The meeting was closed with prayer and singing.
It was wonderful to see a different side of life in Niger.
Friday, February 6, 2009
African Weather Report
Thursday, February 5, 2009
Swimming in the Suez Canal (well, not literally!)
Last night we attended what we felt was a World Summit on Islamic and Christian Religions. Dr. Otto (a University of Niamey Professor and a converted Christian) and his wife, five Boston University students doing their semester abroad and Chacko joined us for a meal and lecture/dialogue. It is to heavy and deep to go into details. It was given in French and translated in English. Although I think that we missed much of the message through translation, some of the highlights were: Niger is an open society that Muslims and Christians can live side by side but it still does not take away the discrimination that Christians live with everyday. Madame Otto shared that she has learned not to be a fool for her faith but demand respect for her beliefs. Life is hard here on so many levels.
On a much different note, Dave asked where the air conditioner was in the bedroom. They are mounted in the wall, but unfortunately it is not hot enough to run them. (editor Scott's note: 100 degrees isn't hot enough???)
Again, thanks for your prayers... Kay
Thoughts and Prayers
Fruit of the Spirit Devotion- Day 7
Wednesday, February 4, 2009
Another Update
Just some housekeeping items
Tuesday, February 3, 2009
The wise man builds his house upon the rock
Matthew 7: 24-27 is the story of the wise and foolish builder. This passage
seemed to speak to me today. WE have dug many holes over the last week. We
have completed one long hole 30ft x 2.5 ft x 5ft. We have also completed 7
smaller ditches that are approx. 12 ft x 2.5 ft x 5ft. Unfortunately, we
dug an 8th hole in the wrong place (at least Bruce and Jeremy did) so we
have spent the morning digging the correct one and filling in the wrong
one. Yesterday's devotion was for patience, we need it.
We are here in Niger building a guest house. We are building it in the
sand, are we the foolish builder. NO. Thank God for the sand, it has made
our job digging the foundation easier, but hopefully we are working to build
a rock solid foundation on which a building will be placed so that others
will be able to build their lives on solid rock - Jesus. The foundation
will be built with concrete and metal - so don't worry we really are not
foolish builders.
We are moving along on the foundation digging and hopefully our goal (Kay
and mine) is that before we leave the foundation will be dug. We still have
5 short holes and 3 and 1/2 long holes left - The long holes have part of
them dug that connect with the short holes. The high today is 103 - so
during the heat of the day it is difficult to dig - we nap! Kay and I are
enjoying working with the young Niger men - they want to learn English and
we are trying to learn Hausa, but every time we repeat a word they just laugh
so I don't think we are doing all that well. Today we taught the song
Allelu, Allelu, Allelu, Alleluah - Praise the Lord with the motions. I just
Fruit of the Spirit Devotion- Day 6
Monday, February 2, 2009
Even more photos
One Bread, One Body, One Lord of all
Monday afternoon
We have now met Chako, he is the project supervisor. His sister, Hazara is our cook. They have returned from their father's funeral and life around here is resuming as normal. (She sweeps the entire house floor with a handmade whisk broom and her baby Rahal on her back). It looks like the water filtration system will be up a running soon, yeah!
I hope all is well with everyone.
Kay
Sunday joy
Things are going well! I'm writing on Sunday -- so first an update on church here: I got a little teary during "Holy, Holy, Holy" today and when we took communion. Cool service (actually quite hot!). They make all of the announcements regarding attendance and finances during worship because there is no bulletin or e-mail way of communicating. It was 2 3/4 hours long but it really did not seem so long. The youth sing, the children sing, the women sing, the men sing, the choir sings and then the sermon was preached in Hausa and then translated into French. Susan (permanent missionary) sat next to me and translated into English. The people were lovely, so welcoming and friendly. Lots of good African drumming and also electric keyboard! After church we went to a Chinese restaurant with a young woman who is a Calvin College grad working here for the Christian Reformed Church. No electricity on the bathroom meant they had to light a candle so we could see. Eating out here is sure not like home!
We had the afternoon off, so I crashed and slept hard. Sue went to the airport to pick up a new member of our team and one is leaving tonight so we are still at 10. I went with Susan and Jeremy and 2 others to the Missionary school for an English service this evening.
Tomorrow we dig again... As the days typically go we lost power while we were doing dinner dishes so I washed dishes with a headlight flashlight!!!!
Sue continues to be such a good friend and inspiration, her devotions are wonderful. We had a good laugh riding as 11 people squished in the car today....
Thanks for your love, prayers and support.
Kay
Sunday, February 1, 2009
Sights and Sounds of Africa
We wake each morning to the call to prayer for the Muslims. It happens 5
times a day, but begins at dawn. This morning it was about 4:30 am. It is
a chant (recorded) that is played over a loud speaker. Each Mosque has
their own call to prayer and there might be at least 6 within our listening
area. Then all the other sounds begin as this world begins to awake. I
hear the constant pounding sound of the woman who lives on the compound as
she grinds her meal (millet) into flour for their breakfast. I hear the
sound of the many many children starting their day of just hanging out (most
do not attend school). The goats begin their calls as well as the chickens
that share the street with us just outside our compound. And the smell of
the cooking fires that appear outside of most every home on the street and
of the family that lives on the compound (our guard's family). It is a
world that is so unfamiliar to us. This morning we again began the day with
no water. It just it part of the life here, so we use the jars of water
that are saved to wash. We are the lucky ones who don't have to walk to the
well to get what we need.
Last night we got to see the sun set over the Niger River - The second longest
river in Africa. It was beautiful as we sat on the porch of the best hotel
in town, who would vacation here - I don't know. We had sodas and a type of
kabob to eat. Then we went to a restaurant for dinner and I had a
cheeseburger and fries (only ok), but nice to eat something I knew.
Sharon asked me where I am going to get my hot wings for the Super Bowl.
Unfortunately the only way I am going to have wings is if I catch one of the
chickens on the street and prepare it myself. Besides it will be midnight
before the game even begins. So as you eat and enjoy something so
American as the Super Bowl, Say a prayer of thanksgiving that you live in
the US because we are blessed beyond measure. Also as you shower for church
be thankful for hot water - I really miss it.
Kay and I are having a wonderful experience and look forward to sharing
parts of it with you. Joy was our devotional theme (we are one day off
because of the sunset) and you, our family and friends are one of our
Fruit of the Spirit Devotion- Day 5
- Patience is what enabled the snail to reach the ark.
- Read Psalm 40:1-3. What four benefits did David receive from waiting?
- What makes us so impatient? What is the most difficult part of being patient, and when is it the hardest?
- It is estimated that there were 45,000 animals on the ark and Noah and his family lived on the ark 1 year, 1 month, and 27 days.
- Why did God make Joshua walk around Jericho three times before he brought the walls down?
- Why did the disciples have to wait three days for the resurrection?
- Why does God make us wait? Read Peter 3:4-9. God is using his time to cultivate trust. Being patient is trusting that God has a plan and will work it out for our benefit. When you become impatient, remember God might be using you to help grow his kingdom. Read Second Peter 3:15.
- So what does patience in God’s eyes look like? Read Romans 5:3-5, 8:22-25 and First Thessalonians 1:3. Where in your life is God making you wait? What are you waiting for? Or who is God calling you to have loving patience with? Are you willing to trust God to work all things together for good in your life?
- Are you ready to hope?
Fruit of the Spirit- Devotion Day 4
- We’ve been talking about the Fruit of the Spirit, now lets talk about the Holy Spirit. Why do we need or why should we want the Holy Spirit in our lives?
- In the passage John 14:25-27, Jesus promises two gifts to his disciples. The first is the Holy Spirit and the second is peace.
- What is the role of the Holy Spirit and what comfort does he offer?
- Share with someone an experience of the Holy Spirit in your life. (Post about it on Kay and Sue’s blog if you choose).
- Where does true peace come from? Peace is connected with our sense of dependence on God, our faith that God controls everything, and trusting in his wisdom and kindness.
- World peace? What do you think is the world’s idea of peace? If you watch commercials, many products offer peace- deodorant, investments, insurance. Jesus says, “I don’t give to you as the world gives”. What does he mean? Is it possible to have true and lasting peace on the world’s terms?
- Jesus says, “Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid”. Why is this so hard for us? Read Philippians 4:6-7. Does God ask the impossible?
- Remember, just like joy, peace is not dependent on circumstance. When God is at the center of your life, you worship. When he is not, you worry. Read Matthew 6:25-34. How do we make God the center of our life? If you want to worry less, pray more.
Saturday night
Today we spent the morning at at Jeremy and Susan's making and frosting cookies from scratch for the school carnival this afternoon, where i did facepainting. What a blast. The best was painting a heart on the face of a baby sleeping in his mothers wrap while she knelt down and held her on my lap. Sue made balloon animals!! We made homemade pizza (the crust and the sauce) and homemade ice cream and caramel topping for dessert for lunch. who would've thought in Africa? The carnival lasted until 6:30, now we are "home" eating pancakes for supper. (I do not think I will be losing any weight after all!) Driving home we passed many small mosques where all of the men were outside kneeling in prayer, what a sight.
Tomorrow we will worship at the church Jeremy and Susan attend. It will be at least 3 hours we have been told, because there will be communion. Men will sit on one side, women on the other.
OK -- the weirdest food so far is the mutton stew, and we have had masa and fati masa (fried cakes and fried dough) off the "street" (dirt road really.) They, of course, were very good. We are in the city 700,000 people so there are no wild animals, however, we have driven behind herds of cattle, seen camels, donkeys, goats,chickens (alive and dead!) everywhere!!! The hottest temp: 113 in the afternoon. I keep saying it but it is true, the sights, sounds and smells are AMAZING.
I am really doing great. Thanks for your support and prayers. Kay
Friday, January 30, 2009
Fruit of the Spirit- Day 3
Thursday afternoon
So far I have not seen the stars; there is too much smoke in the air from the wood fires and of course all the dust.
While Sue worked digging again this morning I had the adventure of going to change money. We did not get out of the car because we did it on the Grande Marche.(basically on the street) They do not charge a fee as the banks do. The car was swarmed with young men who had calculators. Jeremy opened his window haggled with them a bit until they agreed on a price. 490 francs for $1.00. He said that is the best price since they have been here almost 2 years. After all was counted and exchanged we went on our way. Driving around the city is like nothing I have ever seen or experienced before...it is so hard to describe the conditions. On the road we passed goats, people, camels, people,more goats, accidents, motorcycles, more people, and chickens and litter and garbage and of course more goats. All that being said, people are friendly, happy to meet us (and stare a bit). Tonight we are going to a restaurant for dinner....stay tuned!!
-- Kay
Thursday, January 29, 2009
Niger- Day 3
Fruit of the Spirit- Devotion Day 2
Wednesday, January 28, 2009
from Kay Wednesday am
We are not in Kansas anymore
Fruit of the Spirit Devotion- Day 1
Tuesday, January 27, 2009
Arrived!!!
Monday, January 26, 2009
The cross cut saw adventure
So as I leave today, I request prayers not only for safe travels, but also for my new traveling companion - The Stanley cross cut saw.
Love, Sue
Sunday, January 25, 2009
nervous excitement for Niger -- by Kay
And yes, I'm nervous... did I bring all the necessary things? Dressing for 100 degree weather for over two weeks in a culture that doesn't allow women to show much skin with no laundry facilities... hmmm.... Yet I'm excited. I could never do this without my mission-partner Sue. Her faith-perspective and sense of adventure are amazing!
So tomorrow Scott and I will meet with Sue and her husband Gary for lunch at "Stuff 'yer face" for one last American meal. Then Scott will drive us to JFK. We'll fly Air France to Paris overnight and then the flight due south to Niamey, Niger. Faith is put into practice as we anticipate someone on the other side of the world in an airport to meet us with a sign that says "RCA"! What will our accomodations be like? I'm not sure. What will we eat? I don't know. (although goat is the main meat staple so says information from the web.) What will our days bring? I can't quite know. I do know that mission-trips such as this requires flexibility! What I do know is that I love you and will miss you all.
So much adventure ahead and so much to learn. So much love and so many prayers go with me. I've been overwhelmed by the number of people who have reached out with their care and comments. So few people travel to Africa, especially to a country like Niger, it becomes an adventure to share. And so I go, grateful for your interest, asking for your continued prayers, dependent on God, filled with faith, guided by grace and asking Christ to let whatever I can offer to be used to His glory. And I humbly ask to learn and receive as well. I anticipate coming home with a new perspective on the world.
Monday, January 19, 2009
A Special Gift by Sue
I opened a note today that had come from one of the college students from our church. She had been home when I spoke about my trip in church for January Mission of the Month. With her note of encouragement and prayers for my trip was a check. This gift brought tears to my eyes (I know – not that big of a deal). I know because I have college age students of my own that money is something in short supply, so her gift means all the much more knowing the sacrifice she is making to support me.
I go to Africa not on my own, but as your representative. Each of you are part of me and I take you with me through your prayers and gifts. You might not be physically in Niger, but know that you are part of the mission team traveling and serving with me. It is because of your spiritual encouragement, teaching and support that I am able to go and serve. Thank you all.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009
Why Niger by Sue
If you had asked me a year ago if Niger was a country, I would have said yes. The unfortunate thing is I would have been referring to Nigeria. I came to know about Niger as part of the 2008 mission program at Three Bridges. May’s Mission of the Month was Words of Hope, a international Christian radio ministry. We had decided to highlight a different country that they served each Sunday of the month. After speaking with David Bast (our guest speaker) he suggested the countries of Niger, Benin and Sudan. With the help of the Music and More children, we spent a few weeks learning together about the countries and trying out recipes from the different regions to serve during coffee hour. We made millet cookies, millet muffins, coconut balls and other items. I am afraid that millet might be a staple in my diet in Niger and I have discovered that I am not that fond of the taste. Most of the children agreed that the items we made were disgusting.
May 2, 2008 was the start of my Niger adventure. This is what I wrote that day in my journal:
Today is the start of my adventure – I think! I just finished the bulletin board for Word’s of Hope highlighting the countries of Niger, Sudan and Benin. When I returned home I opened an e-mail from the RCA listing volunteer opportunities, I was looking to see if there was something for Kelsey since she does not have a job for the summer, when I truly felt that the computer was yelling at me. My eyes saw and my ears heard the call. Is it coincidence that I have just spent 3 weeks talking about Niger to the kids? Was God preparing me? What will Gary think? Can I do this? God, are you really calling me? WOW – I think so….
That night I shared my feelings with Gary and he said that I have to go. He said that it would be a family endeavor and that although I will be the only one traveling the entire family will be part of the experience and that we wouldn’t worry about the money, it would take care of itself. And it did! We had been saving up our points for something special and there was more than enough to cover the entire cost of my flight ($1900).
On May 4, I sent an e-mail to Kay, my mission buddy and just said I had travel plans. On June 2nd Kay said she was in!
As I continue to prepare for the trip, I am totally at peace (and if you knew my international travel past you would not believe this – just ask my parents and sisters). I know that this is an adventure that I am to take. I have no idea what it will be like, but I am up for the challenge.
Sunday, January 11, 2009
Fruit of the Spirit Devotion- Day 2
- When you read Galatians 5:22-23, did you notice that the word “fruit” is used, not fruits? Why do you think that is? Love is the Fruit of the Spirit. All the other qualities are contained in or are expressions of love or how love makes itself known. As we study the Fruit of the Spirit, we need to remember that all the fruits we’ll talk about are a lesson about the heart of God, which is love, expressed through and revealed through God’s sacrifice of his only son. Read First Corinthians 13:1-13.
- Why do you think Paul begins this passage the way he does? Why do you think that Paul says that love is the greatest? I would have thought faith is the greatest, it’s what connects us with God. The answer is in First Corinthians 13:1-3. If we don’t have love, we are nothing- that’s why love is so important.
- So now that we know that love is the greatest virtue, what does that mean for us? How are we to love? God calls us to love in four areas.
o 1. Love God. Matthew 22:36-38
o 2. Love Yourself. Psalm 139:13-16, Matthew 22:39
o 3. Love Others. 1 John 3:11-20
o 4. Love your Enemies. Luke 6:27-36.
- How can we truly love our enemies? View things from God’s point of view. Luke 23:34
- Love is the Fruit of the Spirit. How can you grow to be more loving? Who is God challenging you to love today? Regardless of how you feel about someone, you can chose to show love. Ask God for help.
To Kay:
Sue
The countdown begins
Currently, I have two weeks from tomorrow until I leave. I have finished all the shots and am currently taking the malaria medication (not really agreeing with me). I will share with you more as the count down continues.
Sue
Fruit of the Spirit Devotion- Day 1
Discovering the Fruit of the Spirit
“But the Fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.” Galatians 5:22-23a.
Day One- Bearing Fruit
- From the beginning God calls his creation to bear fruit. Read Genesis 1:11-12, 21-22, and 27-28.
- From the beginning God has shared with us our purpose- bearing fruit. His entire creation is to be fruitful. It is creations way of honoring God. So what do you think God means when He says, “Be Fruitful”?
- Scripture tells us the secret to a fruitful life is a purposeful life that brings blessings to others; a life filled with qualities that draw people to us like love, gentleness, and kindness. The problem is that we cannot produce fruit on our own. We are like branches on a vine, wholly dependent on the vine to supply us what we need to bear fruit. Read John 15:1-8. What does it mean when Christ says, “Remain in me”?
The Verse of the Day:
“But blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in him. He will be like a tree planted by the water that sends out its roots by the stream. It does not fear when heat comes; its leaves are always green. It has no worries in a year of drought and it never fails to bear fruit” Jeremiah 17:7-8. Do you know someone whose leaves are always green- even in a drought?
- Is your relationship with Christ like a mature tree, always green and bearing fruit? Ask God to reveal to you areas of your life that might not be fruitful and ask him to begin to prune those areas, granting you wisdom, knowledge, and grace to have your branches become an abundant harvest.
- Read John 15:16
- If we want the Fruit of the Spirit to grow in us, we must join our lives to his. We must know him, love him, and remember him. As a result, we will fulfill the intended purpose of the law- to love God and our neighbors.